2019 was a complete shit-show.....actually life has been really difficult for me since 2013....
2013 a guy that was a manager, because he was demoted from his position of Director at my company was angry that I didn't want to hang out with him (he was married with kids)....and anyway he became tough to work for....so I transferred and worked at this department that was low paying and working under people that were "recovering addicts" and they made my life even more hell than that manager....they kept telling me crap that they could tell that I've never done drugs and that I should transfer back to the department that I came from....which I tried and my attempt was blocked....so then I got let go.....then my dog of 16 years died.....then on my way to church a guy ran a red light and totaled my car....and he contested the ticket he got for running the red light and the cop that ticketed him didn't show up to court, because he stopped being a police officer....so his ticket was plead down to no contest and the judge told me and my lawyer that we couldn't bring up his ticket so his lawyer painted him to be a good Christian and tried to manipulate it to it being me that ran the red light....in the end I got nothing....and rolled the debt from that car into another one.
I've worked at all the jobs that had a bad reputation just to have a job....it put me through a lot emotionally and wasn't great for my mental health.....but had to do it to take care of my son and I....
I worked at Starbucks who refused to include me on the tips and refused to pay me the wages owed from working for 2 months.....and they had me do all the hard grunt work of taking all trash out....washing two sinks full of dishes.....cleaning bathrooms....sometimes allowing me to take home food that was going to be tossed in the trash or donated as it was expired.....I kept working cos the manager kept stringing me along, "I'm working on it hand in there," and "I promise you'll get paid this week." it was awful....
so....I had gotten my masters and though it'd make a difference in helping me to get better jobs and help me to better provide for my son and I and pay the bills.....it hasn't made a difference at all....and the jobs are just as toxic.
my son had a botched surgery...and had to have another to correct it....and I asked for prayer....none of my friends cared or even said they'd send warm thoughts and prayers on social media.....none of them prayed for me or said anything when I had to have surgery.....none of them wanted to go with me and sit with me as emotional support during my son's surgeries.
My church has been cold and mean....and they aren't emotionally supportive either. They had me send them my bank information, all my bills and then told me that they weren't going to help me late at night before my scheduled appointment to meet with them the next day.
so, my plan is to try to go to college again for a nursing degree since that is a high demand job and better pay.....
but right now....I'm terrified.....my bank is in the negative....all my bills are behind....my phone is about to get shut off....which I have to have a phone to get job interviews....so it's been so tough...I don't know what to do....
and I haven't been getting my mail like I'm supposed to......and told by the usps to drive 3 hours to my former address' post office and put the change of address there as the post office in the town where I live never bothered to update my address.....
it just seems that things are getting worse and worse and I pray and try.....I mess up...but I pray and try again....and can't get through to 2 prayer lines to call for prayer....and no one cares....
I obviously can't give up since I have a kid....but I really want to....I hate fighting the world and just don't have much strength to keep doing it.....it's a losing battle....
I feel like God has forgotten me and forsaken me....I don't know what to do to please Him and get him to help me....I have no one else....God is all I have....and not even God seems to care....
so, I don't know what to do....
2013 a guy that was a manager, because he was demoted from his position of Director at my company was angry that I didn't want to hang out with him (he was married with kids)....and anyway he became tough to work for....so I transferred and worked at this department that was low paying and working under people that were "recovering addicts" and they made my life even more hell than that manager....they kept telling me crap that they could tell that I've never done drugs and that I should transfer back to the department that I came from....which I tried and my attempt was blocked....so then I got let go.....then my dog of 16 years died.....then on my way to church a guy ran a red light and totaled my car....and he contested the ticket he got for running the red light and the cop that ticketed him didn't show up to court, because he stopped being a police officer....so his ticket was plead down to no contest and the judge told me and my lawyer that we couldn't bring up his ticket so his lawyer painted him to be a good Christian and tried to manipulate it to it being me that ran the red light....in the end I got nothing....and rolled the debt from that car into another one.
I've worked at all the jobs that had a bad reputation just to have a job....it put me through a lot emotionally and wasn't great for my mental health.....but had to do it to take care of my son and I....
I worked at Starbucks who refused to include me on the tips and refused to pay me the wages owed from working for 2 months.....and they had me do all the hard grunt work of taking all trash out....washing two sinks full of dishes.....cleaning bathrooms....sometimes allowing me to take home food that was going to be tossed in the trash or donated as it was expired.....I kept working cos the manager kept stringing me along, "I'm working on it hand in there," and "I promise you'll get paid this week." it was awful....
so....I had gotten my masters and though it'd make a difference in helping me to get better jobs and help me to better provide for my son and I and pay the bills.....it hasn't made a difference at all....and the jobs are just as toxic.
my son had a botched surgery...and had to have another to correct it....and I asked for prayer....none of my friends cared or even said they'd send warm thoughts and prayers on social media.....none of them prayed for me or said anything when I had to have surgery.....none of them wanted to go with me and sit with me as emotional support during my son's surgeries.
My church has been cold and mean....and they aren't emotionally supportive either. They had me send them my bank information, all my bills and then told me that they weren't going to help me late at night before my scheduled appointment to meet with them the next day.
so, my plan is to try to go to college again for a nursing degree since that is a high demand job and better pay.....
but right now....I'm terrified.....my bank is in the negative....all my bills are behind....my phone is about to get shut off....which I have to have a phone to get job interviews....so it's been so tough...I don't know what to do....
and I haven't been getting my mail like I'm supposed to......and told by the usps to drive 3 hours to my former address' post office and put the change of address there as the post office in the town where I live never bothered to update my address.....
it just seems that things are getting worse and worse and I pray and try.....I mess up...but I pray and try again....and can't get through to 2 prayer lines to call for prayer....and no one cares....
I obviously can't give up since I have a kid....but I really want to....I hate fighting the world and just don't have much strength to keep doing it.....it's a losing battle....
I feel like God has forgotten me and forsaken me....I don't know what to do to please Him and get him to help me....I have no one else....God is all I have....and not even God seems to care....
so, I don't know what to do....